Blog Hero

Senior Parent with Amazon Shopping Addiction: How to Address the Issue Compassionately

Request a Tour
A smiling older adult with a laptop holding a bank card in one hand and shopping online.

As our parents age, they often face various challenges, from physical changes that require personal support for daily living to feelings of isolation or boredom without connection and community. For some elderly individuals, these challenges can lead to new habits, such as excessive online shopping.

The convenience of platforms like Amazon can make it easy to overspend, creating financial and emotional strain for both the individual and their family. If you’re noticing concerning behaviors in your senior parent, here are some ways to address the issue compassionately:

  • Choose the right time and setting for the discussion.
  • Express your concerns gently.
  • Avoid judgmental language.
  • Listen actively to their side of the story.
  • Reassure a parent your goal is to help.

What Is Shopping Addiction?

Shopping addiction, also known as compulsive buying disorder, is a behavioral issue where individuals feel an uncontrollable urge to shop, often buying items they don’t need or have the money for. With online platforms like Amazon making it quick and easy to purchase items, this addiction can become even harder to manage.

For retired individuals, online shopping may provide comfort or entertainment in times of loneliness or boredom. However, unchecked shopping addiction can lead to unfortunate outcomes.

How Amazon Shopping Addiction Impacts Elderly Parents & Families

Excessive online shopping can significantly affect both your senior parent and your family in some common ways:

  • Financial strain: Frequent purchases can deplete savings or fixed incomes, putting an elderly parent’s financial security at risk.
  • Cluttered living spaces: Excessive shopping may result in overwhelming amounts of unused items, creating safety hazards in the home.
  • Family tensions: Arguments about finances and spending habits can lead to strained relationships between elderly parents and their adult children or family caregivers.

Understanding these impacts can help you approach the problem compassionately, focusing on solutions rather than blame.

Identifying Signs of Amazon Shopping Addiction in Seniors

Before addressing the issue, it’s important to recognize the signs of shopping addiction. Some key indicators can include:

  • Regular delivery of packages with items they don’t need or use.
  • Hiding purchase receipts.
  • Lying about spending habits.
  • Neglecting essential expenses, such as bills, in favor of shopping.
  • Emotional reliance on shopping, such as turning to it for comfort or as a coping tool.

If you’ve noticed these behaviors, it’s time to step in and provide support.

How to Address Amazon Shopping Addiction

Discussing shopping addiction with a parent can be tricky, as it may evoke feelings of defensiveness or embarrassment. Here’s how to approach the conversation with care:

  • Choose the right time and setting for the discussion, ensuring privacy and calm surroundings.
  • Express your concerns gently, focusing on specific behaviors and not directly at them: “I’ve noticed lots of packages arriving lately…”
  • Avoid judgmental language. Instead, approach the conversation with curiosity and kindness.
  • Listen actively to their side of the story, as they may share feelings of loneliness or stress that could contribute to the behavior.
  • Reassure them that your goal is to help, and maintain a collaborative tone throughout the conversation.

Practical Tips for Managing Shopping Addiction

An adult child helping their elderly parent setup spending limits on a laptop.

Once the conversation begins, you can take these practical steps to help your senior parent regain control of their shopping habits:

  • Monitor online spending: Help a parent set up spending limits on their Amazon account. Use features like disabling one-click purchases or requiring approval for certain transactions.
  • Introduce alternative activities: Encourage hobbies like gardening, book clubs, or community events to redirect their focus from shopping.
  • Remove triggers: Suggest unsubscribing from promotional emails that may tempt them to shop.
  • Organize living spaces: Work together to declutter their home and donate unused items to charities, which can provide a fresh perspective and reduce feelings of overwhelm.

When to Seek Professional Help

If the shopping addiction persists despite your efforts, seeking professional help is highly recommended. Counselors, financial advisors, or even addiction specialists can provide valuable tools and resources for managing compulsive shopping behaviors.

If you suspect the reason behind your senior parent’s excessive shopping is loneliness or depression, address these underlying issues. One helpful solution could be to tour a senior living community together to explore their lifestyle options.

Senior living communities offer a variety of activities, events, and opportunities for socialization. By involving a parent in the decision-making process and finding a community that aligns with their interests and needs, you can help them build new friendships and connections while addressing their shopping addiction.

A Healthier, Safer Environment in Senior Living

While addressing Amazon shopping addiction can feel challenging, a positive change is possible with patience and empathy. By fostering open communication, setting thoughtful boundaries, and finding fulfilling alternatives, you can help your senior parent regain control of their habits and enjoy a healthier, more balanced lifestyle.

Contact Peregrine Senior Living at Crossgate for more information about our community and how we create a safe and enriching environment for loved ones. Your loved one can build habits that prioritize their well-being with the right community and care. 

Our Services, Events & Dining Experiences

We strive to serve everyone who calls our community home with meaningful services, experiences, and activities. From comfortable amenities to personalized dining options, we’re here to meet your unique needs.

Comprehensive Services & Amenities

Enrich your lifestyle with community, safety, and comfort. We offer cozy suites, an on-site lounge, a theater, a salon, and 24/7 caregiver access.

Community Events & Activities

We believe in making the most of every moment and curating safe, inclusive experiences. Our community enjoys regularly scheduled group outings and a wide array of fun events!

Restaurant-Style Dining Options

Our culinary team is happy to personalize resident meals and offer delicious dining experiences complete with quality, nutritious dishes. 

Our Testimonials

Visit Peregrine Senior Living Today

Find us on Washington Avenue Extension, across from Crossgates Commons Plaza. 

Visitors are always welcome.

Our Address

  • 140 Washington Avenue Extension
  • Albany, NY 12203

Contact Information

Contact Us

Check Us Out On Facebook

Comments Box SVG iconsUsed for the like, share, comment, and reaction icons

Happy National Wear Plaid Day! 👚

#nationalplaidday #seniorlivingcommunity #peregrinecrossgate
... See MoreSee Less

Happy National Wear Plaid Day! 👚 

#NationalPlaidday #SeniorLivingCommunity #PeregrineCrossgate

Wreath season is back in session! 🍂🍁

Beautiful job, ladies!
... See MoreSee Less

Wreath season is back in session! 🍂🍁

Beautiful job, ladies!Image attachmentImage attachment+3Image attachment

At Peregrine Senior Living, we understand that long-term care planning is about more than logistics. It’s about dignity, care, and celebrating individuality.

Take the time this month to explore your options. Your loved one deserves compassionate care, and we're here to help.

peregrinecrossgate.com/
... See MoreSee Less

At Peregrine Senior Living, we understand that long-term care planning is about more than logistics. It’s about dignity, care, and celebrating individuality. 

Take the time this month to explore your options. Your loved one deserves compassionate care, and were here to help.

https://peregrinecrossgate.com/

Oktoberfest Happy Hour 🍻

#cheers #octoberfestivities #HappyHourVibes
... See MoreSee Less

Oktoberfest Happy Hour 🍻 

#Cheers #OctoberFestivities #HappyHourVibesImage attachmentImage attachment+5Image attachment

Peregrine Crossgate Community Fashion show! 💃✨ ... See MoreSee Less

Peregrine Crossgate Community Fashion show! 💃✨Image attachmentImage attachment+8Image attachment

Family & Friends Harvest Festival 2025! 🍂🌾

What a wonderful day spent with residents, family, friends and staff! Thank you all for joining us! We had a great time especially with Jackie and her band Hit -n- Run rocking the day!

#HarvestFestival #crossgatecommunity #friendsandfamily
#seniorlivingcommunity
... See MoreSee Less

Family & Friends Harvest Festival 2025! 🍂🌾

What a wonderful day spent with residents, family, friends and staff! Thank you all for joining us! We had a great time especially with Jackie and her band Hit -n- Run rocking the day! 

#HarvestFestival #crossgatecommunity #friendsandfamily
#seniorlivingcommunityImage attachmentImage attachment+Image attachment

Today’s the day! 📌😊

Harvest Festival Sep 27, 12:00pmPeregrine Senior Living at Crossgate🍂 Our Annual Family Harvest Festival is scheduled! 🍁

Invitations were mailed to all resident's responsible parties but we wanted to ensure we got the word out to all! Please reach out to Destiny Rossman, Activity Director with any questions!

Hope to see you there! 😊
... See MoreSee Less

Harvest Festival
Load more
instagram facebook facebook2 pinterest twitter google-plus google linkedin2 yelp youtube phone location calendar share2 link star-full star star-half chevron-right chevron-left chevron-down chevron-up envelope fax